Strike up a small
conversation . This will
help you learn little things that
will come in handy in the
future. If you like a girl, don't
let her slip away, tell her the
truth, but if you don't like her
and she told you that she does,
don't say anything...it can break
her heart. And when she tells
you that, and, you don't like
her, tell her that she's a great
person. Girls like it when boys
say they like something that
they did or either said you're
great at something. All girls are
different, so be aware of the
signs. Listen to the tone of her
voice: if she's shy, the tone of
her voice might be a little more
soft, and she might start to play
with her hair (smoothing it
down, twirling, flipping),
adjusting her clothes, and
might stare at you. Another
sign she likes you is if she
laughs at only your boring or
stupid joke. (Though, don't use
bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk
looking like a comedy dork.)
She may not be able to look you
straight in the eye and she
might giggle a lot because she
is thinking of funny, nice
gossip.
A girl that's interested in you
will usually immediately
smile when you start a
conversation with her. The
smile may disappear quickly
if she's shy, but it's hard to
hide an unexpected strong
emotion. If she's not
interested (that doesn't
mean she doesn't like you,
but she likely doesn't have a
crush on you), she'll likely
look at you inquisitively, but
she won't express any
particular strong emotion.
Watch for signs of flirting. If
she's flirting, she may be
difficult to read. Flirting girls
may flirt with guys who they
consider to be just friends, and
it can be misconstrued as a
crush. Although some girls have
no idea they are flirting. Most
girls do not want to be obvious,
the flirting ones might flirt with
you a little bit less or they
might flirt with you even more.
Either way, don't "flirt around".
Do not flirt with other girls. If
she ever sees you putting your
arm around another girl or sees
another girl hugging you, she
may jump to conclusions and
assume she doesn't mean
anything to you. And she has
nothing you like or she doesn't
act the way you like girls.
Notice if she "accidentally"
bumps into you more often
than what people do (she's
obviously trying to touch you or
feel how strong or soft you
are) . If she finds excuses to do
so, then you're probably on the
right track. Tell her it was okay
and you're fine. But conversely,
don't assume that she doesn't
like you because her fall didn't
touch you. She may be too
nervous of you to touch you
yet. Break the touch barrier
yourself. She may also find
other reasons to touch you,
such as by lightly hitting you
about the head, or soft
punching to the body.
Observe how she looks at you.
If she likes you, she will either
hold it for a long time or pull
away immediately. Either of
these could mean that she likes
you. If she pulls away quickly, it
means she is nervous but she
still likes you. Some girls might
just be staring so don't think
she loves you and wants to kiss.
But if she holds the stare, and
you see love in her eyes, then
she is confident and she may
make the first move. If you
happen to glance at the girl and
you see her staring back at you,
then this means that she likes
you, although she may quickly
dart her head in a different
direction
Look at her friends. If you see
most of her friends glancing
back at you and smiling or
giggling, this means that she is
telling her friends about you. If
her friends are loud and
immature, you'll hear "(your
name), (her name) likes you!"
Her friends might be making it
up, however, just to tease her.
So you should probably listen to
stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or
"be quiet! He might hear!!"
When she is having a
conversation with her friends,
and you come over, she might
stop talking all of a sudden. This
likely means you were the
subject of the recently ended
conversation. If she likes you
and she told her friends about
you, they might come up to you
and start a random
conversation about things such
as: Who would you rather date
me or (her name), who do you
like better, who is the hottest,
would you marry (her name) or
me, etc. If they name a list of
about 3 people and her name is
in the list, she probably told her
friends about you and they're
trying to search for clues to see
how you feel about her.
Look out for the damsels in
distress . If you're outside and
the girl you like is nearby and
starts loudly saying "I'm cold!",
that's a subtle hint that she
wants you to give her your
sweater. This is a very sweet
gesture, especially if you want
to show the girl that you like
her. If there are other guys and
she likes one of those guys,
however, she might act
disappointed when you offer
yours to her first, look for her
mad and tell her that who ever
she likes gave it to him to give
it to her. In which case at least
you'll know how she feels and
can move on. Sometimes a girl
will pretend to be really bad at
something, and say that they
can't do it. That is your chance
to offer some assistance, and
she will most likely be doing
this on purpose just to see your
reaction.
Smile at her. Do a natural smile
- don't freak her out. If she
smiles politely, or frowns and
looks away, she is obviously
freaked out by you. If she
returns a soft or big smile and
continues to look at you, then
she is interested. If she smiles
then darts over to the crowd of
her friends and hides in the
group then she may be nervous
and curious if you know that
she likes you.
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This doesn't have to be a fist fight or argument. A man who can intimidate another man or anybody without getting into a fight is a very attractive trait for women.
ReplyDeleteyea.... you are right... and thanks for reading through
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